We are so frequently on the same wave length! I am not as far down the line in the spiritual journey- but interestingly- I bought a Sheela na gigs this week when I was in Ireland. (Ancient goddess with an “exaggerated vulva.”) She now adorns a space near my door, as both protection and a reminder of this erotic journey and the importance of it in my life. Thanks for this post. I am gong to look up some of the other works you cited as well!
Also- “SHOULD” is a word I have been trying to weed out of my vocabulary and thought processes for years, and especially when it comes to sex and relationships in the past two years or so. ❤ “SHOULD” has got to go!