Thanks for sharing. I have a piece on metamours too! It’s a “thing” for us poly people eh? I have some metamours I have relationships with and others I don’t. I’d prefer to have one- but respect the others wishes to not. I’ve heard people say “you go the pace of the “slowest” person.” I can’t force a relationship so I respect where they are at. All relationships take work and have their own nuances and struggles.

Thanks for this thoughtful post.

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