I also think (I feel a post about this coming on) men take on some “responsibiity” for our feelings. They “worry” (I use that word loosely) that if we are feeling too much (or more than they are) that they will have to manage all those (my) emotions and suffer the consequences of them. As if, maybe we are too weak to take care of our own feelings. I have found, often they would rather leave than do that. <facepalm>