1- How do you know that? Sure it’s not a romantic song- but people can have strong intimacy and not be “romantic.” And who defines romance anyway? You? Storybooks, fairy tales? https://link.medium.com/cL6OwX75U8

2- So what? Why is it a problem if a grown woman wants to have sex that is “just” the act? Sex is good. Sex is fun. There is nothing wrong Consensual physical intimacy between people who communicate and know what they want. Why do you get to decide it has to be one way or the highway?

3- If more young women knew they could say “Yes,” and not think their only option was “No” they would say No more often understanding it is their right to choose. Telling young girls that sex can only be “this thing” is harmful and studies shows it actually has the opposite effect.

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